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Wedding Celebration Ceremony

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If you’re making plans for your Wedding Ceremony or Blessing, I’m here to help. Your ceremony can be an enchanting expereince brimming with joy, laughter, and moments that will stay etched in your hearts forever. As a fully qualified celebrant, I aim to plan and conduct your highly personalised and unique ceremony that will be tailored to you both and to your values. I’m based between Scarborough and Whitby, North Yorkshire and cover all the surrounding areas.

How important is your ceremony?

The value and choice an independent celebrant can bring to a ceremony is second to none. The use of celebrants is increasing due to the demand for personalised, inclusive, and meaningful ceremonies that reflect individual values and preferences.Imagine your Wedding Ceremony built around you, that includes your love story. One where you can express your creativity, through a memorable and deeply meaningful ceremony that will be cherished for years to come. Hold it wherever you want to, at the time of day that suits you, and with as many people as you like included. With an independent celebrant, the possibilities really are endless!

What can you include?

Your ceremony can include your love story, exchange of rings, special or symbolic elements (no extra cost) such as handfasting (tying the knot), sand or rose ceremony, oathing stone or many others, plus readings, poems, even a dance/song performed by your children, and other unique additions that are personal to you. If you would like cultural or religious elements in your ceremony, that’s no problem at all. I can also help with your vows if you wish and if you would like a themed or alternative wedding – it’s no problem! Together, we’ll build it around you and make it one-of-a-kind.

With a professional, fully qualified celebrant the possibilities for your Wedding Celebration Ceremony or Wedding Blessing are limitless. For a free initial consultation, simply get in touch and I will learn what will make your day extra special, discover your hopes and dreams, and weave your story into a perfectly crafted ceremony that reflects your endless love for each other.

What about the legalities?


In England, the legal requirements for marriage are actually very short and simple and inexpensive (currently, about £57 at a local register office with 2 witnessess) unless you want a longer service of course. You are then free to hold the ceremony of your dreams wherever you want (no need for the venue to be licensed), include whatever you like, hold it at any time of day, and have it planned and conducted by a celebrant like myself.

Many people choose to carry out the short legalities in a registration office a day or so before their actual ceremony so they can then have everything they want. You will then not be constrained by wording or framework and your ceremony won’t be boring. It can be romantic, traditional, fun or themed, and you can include anything you like.  Alternatively, the registrar can attend your venue to carry out the legal section of the ceremony and I can follow on with your personalised elements.

There is no need to exchange personal vows or rings in front of the registrar; you can save these elements for your Wedding Celebration Ceremony. It is because the ceremonies I conduct are not legally binding that they are so very flexible and can take place soon after the brief formalities. Whether it’s indoors or outdoors, at home, a hotel, stately home, boat, wood or on the beach, the possibilities really are endless.

Converting a Civil Partnership into a marriage

Groom and groom exchanging rings

If you have a same-sex civil partnership, you can convert it into a legal marriage but before holding your Wedding Celebration Ceremony, you will need to sign a conversion into marriage declaration at your local register office. After this, your ceremony can take place anywhere and be one that truly reflects your personalities and love for each other. In England and Wales you cannot convert an opposite-sex civil partnership to a marriage.

What would make your ceremony perfect? The ceremonies that I conduct are professional and flexible. Whether it’s at home surrounded by a few close friends, in a stately home or on the beach with hundreds of guests, the possibilities really are endless.

If you would like inspiration for readings and poems, follow this link!

It’s your day – let’s do it your way!

An easy guide to your perfect Wedding Ceremony

Happy couple

Step 1 – Select a date and find your perfect venue (it does not need to be licensed for weddings).

Step 2 – Contact a celebrant, such as myself, check availability and have an initial free chat before arranging to meet to plan your perfect ceremony.

Step 3 – Carry out the legalities by contacting your local registry office to book an appointment to give Notice of Marriage, say the legal words in a brief service, in the presence of witnesses, and complete the paperwork. With formalities complete, you are free to hold your ceremony however you like.

Step 4 – Hold the Wedding Celebration Ceremony you’ve always wanted. As the officiant I will be there before you to check everything is in place and await your arrival. Then I will deliver the ceremony of your dreams.

Your Wedding Celebration Ceremony package

Free initial discussion: The initial discussion is free!  Before you commit, you can ask questions and decide if I’m the right celebrant to plan your ceremony.

Planning meeting – I’ll meet with you to guide you through the details of your ceremony and talk through all the things you may want to include.  Your ceremony can be as simple or as elaborate as you like. Meetings usually take place in person, but they can be virtual if that works better.  I’d love to hear your ideas and I’ll bring lots of tooan.  We’ll discuss the many special touches that can be added to make it the best it can be!

Your personalised ceremony – I will research, plan and craft a unique ceremony that has your love story woven into it.  It will be one you’ll remember forever.  Include whatever you like, perhaps symbolic elements such as handfasting (tying the knot), and/or a unity candle.  If you like, religious elements can be included as well.  You could even plant a tree together and watch it grow as your relationship grows.  You will of course have opportunities to make alterations to the plan until you are completely happy.

Support – Throughout the planning process I’ll be available to guide and support you.  If you would like help writing vows or promises, rest assured, it’s all part of the service.  I can also help you find the perfect reading, poems or music for your ceremony.  If you have further questions about the ceremony or want to change something, simply get in touch and let me take the strain.

Collaboration – You’ll need everyone involved to work together.  I can coordinate with other wedding suppliers, such as the photographer and venue on the day and in advance as required.

Rehearsal – Rehearsals are not always needed but can be arranged.

On the day – When your big day comes, I’ll arrive early to check everything is in place.  I’ll coordinate with others and ensure everything we’ve planned slots into place.  Finally, I’ll conduct the ceremony we agreed on and you’ll be able to relax and enjoy your day!

Keepsake – As part of your ceremony you will have the opportunity to sign a commemorative certificate.  This will be presented to you in a keepsake folder with a copy of the Wedding Ceremony script and a small gift.

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Wedding Celebration Ceremony

The price stated is a guide. I price individually so contact me for an exact fee for your ceremony and we can start a discussion on how I can help make your dreams a reality. An initial administration fee secures your date.

It’s your ceremony, let’s do it your way - the possibilities are endless!

"The vows I take will be forever; I’ll love you all my life"

Nicolas Gordon